17岁儿子给我的一封信，求建议 (转载)

发信人: dcbang (不解，气，话冲), 信区: Parenting
标  题: 17岁儿子给我的一封信，求建议 (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Nov 29 10:20:10 2014, 美东)

【 以下文字转载自 Dreamer 讨论区 】
发信人: Dreamer (不要问我从哪里来), 信区: Dreamer
标  题: 17岁儿子给我的一封信，求建议
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Nov 24 11:14:45 2014, 美东)

儿子17岁，昨天和小弟弟吵架，骂小弟弟是白痴，我把他叫到地下室私下说他，不要那
样凶。我知道他夜里偷偷玩电脑，偷偷用我的手机上网。批评了他。这个之后，他就到
楼上大约半个小时后，交给我一封信。
"I will admint it, I've changed, we don't agree on everything, and I think
my philosophy severely differs from your philosophy. your philosophy is
based on Chinese morals and traditions. mine based off american morals and
traditions with minimal Chinese views. I con't stand having to endure this,
you might totally disagree with what I am writing, I can't change that, but
I stant firmly with my own beliefs."这个市针对他在我不知情的情况下用我手机的。

下面的对我比较意外 “I don't think you can say that you haven't done
anything bad behind peoples' back. humans are by nature selfish, greedy,
merciless, cruel and cold. you are not one exception, nor am i or anyone
else in this planet.” 这个是给自己找借口吗？

下面的比较伤感“does the title "daddy" still have any meaning to you when it
comes out of my mouth? do I still bear the title of "you son"?/maybe these
questions will remain unanswered, now and ever.”

然后他写的好像是想要离家出走，信里面多次提到了ordermeout, “I won't change,
I just can't， you know that, deep down. if you can't live with that, order
me out, I can't say that I will be happy, but who knows, it might the best
for both of us./子不养，父之过”

请大家帮我看看，给点建议，谢谢！

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